13 Ways An ‘Uncharismatic’ Leader Can Exert A Positive Influence

June 2, 2022

Winning others over—a.k.a. WOO—is a strength that often depends on a person’s innate charisma and charm. Not everyone is naturally comfortable exerting these qualities. Executives, in particular, can find themselves facing an uphill challenge if they fall short when it comes to WOO; in their roles, they often need to win others over to new ideas or inspire their teams to go the extra mile.



Fortunately, there are other strengths and talents that can be leveraged to inspire the positive change you’re seeking. In this article, Stephanie Judd is featured as one of 13 coaches who discuss how they would coach an executive leader who’s struggling to exert a “winning” influence.

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